Life has been pretty hard these past few months with Sir's leg and Us both adjusting to the new 'norm', longer times apart, life getting busy and generally running Us down, plus ill health on both Our partsLife really does suck at times!!!However, one thing I keep hearing and repeat to myself regularly is that… Continue reading When life sucks!
This is something that is often mentioned yet not so clearly defined or explained. Sub drop:"The temporary depression and/or chemical dis-balance experienced by submissive/masochists after intense BDSM play. This can be short lived or can be a delayed reaction, and/or can last as long as a week... If You are the Dominant or Top in… Continue reading Sub drop
These past few months have seemed to go by slower than usual as I have found adjusting to Sir's absence once more a bit of a struggle. Thankfully We don't have the same distance between Us as a year ago, but We are not having the same amount of quality time as We would both… Continue reading Keep Calm and Carry On
A definition online which I find helpful: Self-awareness involves being aware of different aspects of the self including traits, behaviors, and feelings. Essentially, it is a psychological state in which oneself becomes the focus of attention. (verywellmind.com) Once upon a time, I would say that my focus upon myself and my own feelings would only happen… Continue reading Self Awareness
Being part of an online community with Sir, most definitely called my own self image and self awareness into question over the years. Especially in the early days when I had a very low self esteem and was struggling to see myself the way Sir does. There came a time (some years ago now) when… Continue reading Self image