Submission is a journey
To quote a well known song: “Life is a rollercoaster, just gotta ride it!” This past month has been one of the longest, bumpiest rollercoasters I have known in a long time. With many ups and downs, twists and turns and the feelings going on have been like a barrage from a watergun at the… Continue reading Rollercoaster
Unfortunately, Our long awaited reunion did not go as planned for either of Us due to unforeseen circumstances, leaving Us both painfully disappointed in more ways than one and Sir in substantially more pain than I. Having to leave Sir and return home was one of the most heart wrenching departures this time around. Without… Continue reading Summer visit
Finally, We have hit what I like to term the ‘single figures countdown’ !! 😁 Only a matter of days before I am on my way to visit Sir 9 days to go 😛 The days have dragged on, the months have been looooong and We are finally able to get some much needed time… Continue reading Anticipation
For all the upheaval that Covid-19 has caused, the frustration is palpable! Not only are the summer holidays upon us, but there’s the added family commitments that mean even though travel is now possible, I am still unable to get out to France and spend time with Sir! Communications are still limited due to the… Continue reading Summer Nights
absence noun the state of being away from a place or person Nothing quite defines absence like my current situation, where I am away from Sir and have been for some months due to the pandemic and additional hurdles such as the school summer holidays and the inability to visit, even though lock down has… Continue reading Absence
Very few people dare to admit that we do actually live with monsters on a daily basis. Be that from inner fears, worries and doubts. Personal circumstances always have both positive and negative sides, as well as with every action there is always a reaction. Much like the teachings of Tao Te Ching, by Laozi,… Continue reading Monsters, part II
‘used as a formal and polite way of speaking to a man, especially one who you are providing a service to or who is in a position of authority’ Cambridge Dictionary ‘Sir’ is used in D/s and BDSM lifestyles in reference to the power exchange, which is earned between the Dominant and His submissive when… Continue reading Definition of ‘Sir’
1) Welcome everything. Push away nothing. In welcoming everything, we don’t have to like all that’s arising. It is not a submissive’s job to approve or not. It is our task to trust, to listen and to pay careful attention to the changing experience. At the deepest level, we are being asking to cultivate a… Continue reading Precepts in service
We all have fears and doubts. We all have nightmares of one form or another. We all have a past, a present and a future. We all have a choice as to what we do for ourselves in our own lives and how we respond to all and any circumstance and situation. For me, as… Continue reading Monsters
We all have a past, we all have areas we would prefer to forget or put away in a closet. Some of us have demons that haunt us or hold us back for various reasons. There are also areas within us that are usually lurking within the shadows of ourselves. However, along my journey, I… Continue reading Shadows, closets and monsters under the bed
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