If there is one thing that my journey has taught me, it is that patience is a must!! Patience with myself, patient with understanding and clarity to come, patience to hear from Sir and patience whilst apart from Sir, whilst wanting so badly to be in His presence and arms again. Patience with myself is… Continue reading Patience
Month: May 2020
Research
Without naming all the many sites I have come across along the past few years as I have looked into various parts of Dominance/submission, there are so many out there it surprised me when I first began. To the point I was overwhelmed. Wow! There is so much more to it than I realised! How… Continue reading Research
Communication part 2
Further to my previous ‘Communication’ post and how it should remain open and honest, this also leads in to how we communicate to our Dominant about all areas of the dynamic. Such things as limits or boundaries, likes and dislikes, no-go areas even. All need to be discussed openly without judgement or reprimand. You should… Continue reading Communication part 2
Communication
One of the first things I discovered very quickly in the world of D/s, as with any relationship really, is that communication is key! Not only is total honesty expected but so is full disclosure. Opening up to someone so completely that you are vulnerable. Laid bare as it were and giving someone the power… Continue reading Communication
Early Days
After many months of chatting, it was decided that I would indeed take the biggest leap of faith I thought possible, at the time, and I gave myself over to Sir to use as He saw fit. At that moment in time, I was still very unsure whether being a submissive was something I could… Continue reading Early Days
The life and duty of a submissive 