Life has been pretty hard these past few months with Sir's leg and Us both adjusting to the new 'norm', longer times apart, life getting busy and generally running Us down, plus ill health on both Our partsLife really does suck at times!!!However, one thing I keep hearing and repeat to myself regularly is that… Continue reading When life sucks!
This is something that is often mentioned yet not so clearly defined or explained. Sub drop:"The temporary depression and/or chemical dis-balance experienced by submissive/masochists after intense BDSM play. This can be short lived or can be a delayed reaction, and/or can last as long as a week... If You are the Dominant or Top in… Continue reading Sub drop
A definition online which I find helpful: Self-awareness involves being aware of different aspects of the self including traits, behaviors, and feelings. Essentially, it is a psychological state in which oneself becomes the focus of attention. (verywellmind.com) Once upon a time, I would say that my focus upon myself and my own feelings would only happen… Continue reading Self Awareness
The Longest Trial so far
Dear friends and followers, It has been a while since I last posted and wanted to drop you a quick update. These past few months has been one of the longest trials for myself personally and for Sir and I. We are nearing 9mths since Sir's accident back in September 2020 and still waiting on… Continue reading The Longest Trial so far
Monsters, part II
Very few people dare to admit that we do actually live with monsters on a daily basis. Be that from inner fears, worries and doubts. Personal circumstances always have both positive and negative sides, as well as with every action there is always a reaction. Much like the teachings of Tao Te Ching, by Laozi,… Continue reading Monsters, part II