This is something that is often mentioned yet not so clearly defined or explained. Sub drop:"The temporary depression and/or chemical dis-balance experienced by submissive/masochists after intense BDSM play. This can be short lived or can be a delayed reaction, and/or can last as long as a week... If You are the Dominant or Top in… Continue reading Sub drop
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Keep Calm and Carry On
These past few months have seemed to go by slower than usual as I have found adjusting to Sir's absence once more a bit of a struggle. Thankfully We don't have the same distance between Us as a year ago, but We are not having the same amount of quality time as We would both… Continue reading Keep Calm and Carry On
The Longest Trial so far
Dear friends and followers, It has been a while since I last posted and wanted to drop you a quick update. These past few months has been one of the longest trials for myself personally and for Sir and I. We are nearing 9mths since Sir's accident back in September 2020 and still waiting on… Continue reading The Longest Trial so far
Definition of ‘Sir’
'used as a formal and polite way of speaking to a man, especially one who you are providing a service to or who is in a position of authority’ Cambridge Dictionary ‘Sir’ is used in D/s and BDSM lifestyles in reference to the power exchange, which is earned between the Dominant and His submissive when… Continue reading Definition of ‘Sir’
Monsters
We all have fears and doubts. We all have nightmares of one form or another. We all have a past, a present and a future. We all have a choice as to what we do for ourselves in our own lives and how we respond to all and any circumstance and situation. For me, as… Continue reading Monsters
The life and duty of a submissive 