'used as a formal and polite way of speaking to a man, especially one who you are providing a service to or who is in a position of authority’ Cambridge Dictionary ‘Sir’ is used in D/s and BDSM lifestyles in reference to the power exchange, which is earned between the Dominant and His submissive when… Continue reading Definition of ‘Sir’
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Precepts in service
1) Welcome everything. Push away nothing. In welcoming everything, we don’t have to like all that’s arising. It is not a submissive’s job to approve or not. It is our task to trust, to listen and to pay careful attention to the changing experience. At the deepest level, we are being asking to cultivate a… Continue reading Precepts in service
Monsters
We all have fears and doubts. We all have nightmares of one form or another. We all have a past, a present and a future. We all have a choice as to what we do for ourselves in our own lives and how we respond to all and any circumstance and situation. For me, as… Continue reading Monsters
Humility
I often use the term ‘Humbly Sir’s submissive’, but what do I mean? “Humility is the quality of being humble and means putting the needs of another person before your own, and thinking of others before yourself. It also means not drawing attention to yourself, and it can mean acknowledging that you are not always right.”… Continue reading Humility
Long Distance Relationship
I have mentioned in previous posts that at present Sir and I have what is known as a Long Distance Relationship, LDR for short. However, how can I be a submissive 24/7 and serve Him whilst apart? In my every day life, I maintain certain standards and rituals that have not changed since Sir moved… Continue reading Long Distance Relationship
The life and duty of a submissive 