'used as a formal and polite way of speaking to a man, especially one who you are providing a service to or who is in a position of authority’ Cambridge Dictionary ‘Sir’ is used in D/s and BDSM lifestyles in reference to the power exchange, which is earned between the Dominant and His submissive when… Continue reading Definition of ‘Sir’
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Shadows, closets and monsters under the bed
We all have a past, we all have areas we would prefer to forget or put away in a closet. Some of us have demons that haunt us or hold us back for various reasons. There are also areas within us that are usually lurking within the shadows of ourselves. However, along my journey, I… Continue reading Shadows, closets and monsters under the bed
A day in the life of
As my learning and understanding about the significance and importance of rituals grew, I began to discover ways to incorporate some rituals into my daily life. Wake between 0330-0430 Head downstairs and dress in Full Collar Send ‘Good morning Sir’ messages to Sir’s phone Make coffee Wait for Sir to message, call or meet online… Continue reading A day in the life of
My submission
From my personal perspective as Sir’s submissive. Submission is about being confident and trusting enough within myself, my sexuality and my partner, to give control over to Him. A longing, a need, a want, a desire and a yearning within my mind, heart, body and soul. However, a submissive remains in control as we decide… Continue reading My submission
The life and duty of a submissive 