From my personal perspective as Sir’s submissive. Submission is about being confident and trusting enough within myself, my sexuality and my partner, to give control over to Him. A longing, a need, a want, a desire and a yearning within my mind, heart, body and soul. However, a submissive remains in control as we decide… Continue reading My submission
Author: Tao's pixie
Lost and Found
Whilst spending many months digging deep and facing demons head on, I learnt just how lost I had actually become in my daily life. I had lost my own identity and self confidence. I couldn’t see myself as much beyond a stay at home mum, with no focus or direction for myself. I had let… Continue reading Lost and Found
Patience
If there is one thing that my journey has taught me, it is that patience is a must!! Patience with myself, patient with understanding and clarity to come, patience to hear from Sir and patience whilst apart from Sir, whilst wanting so badly to be in His presence and arms again. Patience with myself is… Continue reading Patience
Research
Without naming all the many sites I have come across along the past few years as I have looked into various parts of Dominance/submission, there are so many out there it surprised me when I first began. To the point I was overwhelmed. Wow! There is so much more to it than I realised! How… Continue reading Research
Communication part 2
Further to my previous ‘Communication’ post and how it should remain open and honest, this also leads in to how we communicate to our Dominant about all areas of the dynamic. Such things as limits or boundaries, likes and dislikes, no-go areas even. All need to be discussed openly without judgement or reprimand. You should… Continue reading Communication part 2