As my learning and understanding about the significance and importance of rituals grew, I began to discover ways to incorporate some rituals into my daily life. Wake between 0330-0430 Head downstairs and dress in Full Collar Send ‘Good morning Sir’ messages to Sir’s phone Make coffee Wait for Sir to message, call or meet online… Continue reading A day in the life of
Category: Lifestyle
Waiting
From when I first met Sir to this present day, there are many times where having to wait is a necessity. Be that to wait on a response to a message, email, or a question that I have raised. The hardest part is having to wait to be physically with my Sir. There have been… Continue reading Waiting
My submission
From my personal perspective as Sir’s submissive. Submission is about being confident and trusting enough within myself, my sexuality and my partner, to give control over to Him. A longing, a need, a want, a desire and a yearning within my mind, heart, body and soul. However, a submissive remains in control as we decide… Continue reading My submission
Patience
If there is one thing that my journey has taught me, it is that patience is a must!! Patience with myself, patient with understanding and clarity to come, patience to hear from Sir and patience whilst apart from Sir, whilst wanting so badly to be in His presence and arms again. Patience with myself is… Continue reading Patience
Communication part 2
Further to my previous ‘Communication’ post and how it should remain open and honest, this also leads in to how we communicate to our Dominant about all areas of the dynamic. Such things as limits or boundaries, likes and dislikes, no-go areas even. All need to be discussed openly without judgement or reprimand. You should… Continue reading Communication part 2