Further to my previous ‘Communication’ post and how it should remain open and honest, this also leads in to how we communicate to our Dominant about all areas of the dynamic. Such things as limits or boundaries, likes and dislikes, no-go areas even. All need to be discussed openly without judgement or reprimand. You should… Continue reading Communication part 2
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Communication
One of the first things I discovered very quickly in the world of D/s, as with any relationship really, is that communication is key! Not only is total honesty expected but so is full disclosure. Opening up to someone so completely that you are vulnerable. Laid bare as it were and giving someone the power… Continue reading Communication
Early Days
After many months of chatting, it was decided that I would indeed take the biggest leap of faith I thought possible, at the time, and I gave myself over to Sir to use as He saw fit. At that moment in time, I was still very unsure whether being a submissive was something I could… Continue reading Early Days
Servitude
The definition of Servitude: ‘a right by which something (such as a piece of land) owned by one person is subject to a specified use or enjoyment by another’ With Sir’s Ownership of me, comes my servitude, submission and loyalty, solely to Him. With my commitment to Sir as His submissive, comes my submission and… Continue reading Servitude
How did it all begin?
Without going into too fine a detail, my husband and I came to crossroads in our marriage where we decided to explore the options and possibilities available to us with an Open Relationship within the world of ‘swingers’. My husband does his own thing, with people that suit him and I do mine. What’s good… Continue reading How did it all begin?
The life and duty of a submissive 